An additional remedy for abuse
Abuse comes in a variety of forms. One type involves misusing someone or something to the point where the abuser goes beyond their rights and takes more than they should. Another is when one party consistently treats another party cruelly or violently. Mental, physical, and emotional abuse are all forms of this that can occur. In general, it can be said that abuse is a demonstration of unjust and disrespectful treatment of another living thing, system, or object through misconduct. I think of a serious “lack of respect.”
It exists when there is excessive use, oppressive treatment, or a bad intention that can produce a corrupt practice or custom that endures with the specific intent of inflicting harm on someone. The majority of the time, it happens without warning but becomes more common over time. Abuse of another person is complicated, as this article explains. Despite its complexity, abuse is not a desirable human behavior.
In order to demonstrate why abuse has evolved into a topic deserving of close examination, we’ll present a few actual instances from real life. Consider first a husband whose wife has just left the hospital following a heart procedure to repair a valve. She is recuperating at home. Her foggy mind answers a question from her husband in a way that he cannot understand. He loses it and begins yelling at her. She feels numbed to his words because of her confusion. A barrage of profanities are hurled at her as he yells. “You’re a dummy! The incorrect organ was operated on by the doctors. They ought to have cut open your brain, not your body!” he continues. blatant, unrestrained, and unrepentant… A true story.
This kind of cruelty ought to have been rejected, but it frequently occurs at the worst possible time. You can increase your self-esteem toolkit by adding the art of questioning. Instead of attempting to respond to the abusive person’s unreasonable questions, try responding to them by asking yet another question. Let’s hear that husband out again, but this time put a barrier in his way… a block to his blow. For example, “You are a complete moron! The wrong organ was operated on by the doctors. They ought to have cut open your brain, not your body!” To which the wife could have responded with, “What makes you so vicious? Do you believe this is appropriate behavior for a husband who should be taking care of his wife after she is released from the hospital?”
The victim’s possible lack of assertiveness and low self-esteem may be a contributing factor in how an abuser gains the power to carry on with their disrespectful behavior. Bullies are frequently defeated if they are subtly answered with another question while remaining calm and in control of their emotions. The situation might essentially change. Keep in mind that you should wait for their response while using this technique by remaining silent. Regardless of how long it takes. Uncomfortably, the person who speaks first loses. Keep your cool, please. Silent.
Before you speak, make sure you breathe fully to give your words more timbre and improve the tone or quality of your voice. This gives you a more self-assured tone. Always speak with your lungs full of air as you exhale. Not having to speak right away is acceptable. In order to puncture the bully’s balloon, pausing (to take a breath) can also be useful.